Roots

    So, the past few years I have enjoy the “self-help” book section. The “self-help” section of the book store should be called the self-care section because that’s all it is. I think these types of books can help you discover something new about yourself or reaffirm lessons you have already received. I am…

Stay or Go: When should I quit?

  I hate living up to any generational stereotype and so I fight the urge and encourage others not to job-hop. However, after getting more work experience, I don’t know if it is so bad to job hop if it’s done well. I think at minimum you should stay at a job for a year…

The Mis-Education of the Millennial

Our parents raise us as best as they could, but they messed us up in some ways that weren’t beneficial. Here are six things our parents mis-educated us on.

Quarter Life Crisis

    I will be turning 25 in a couple of weeks. I have a few friends that have already crossed that threshold and the we all speak of this “Quarter Life Crisis”. Ask anyone over 30 and they will say we are being dramatic. We are not being dramatic, it is a somewhat an…

SCD Method- How to Argue

      So at my last job lunch time was therapy time. My friends and I would spend lunch discussing everything under the sun but in most cases we talked about…guys. We talked about current relationships, past relationships, why can’t we meet nice guys, why do we even care about guys, the list could…

Hypermasculinity Won’t Get Your Dick Sucked

In the black community, hypermasculinity is almost second nature. Here are four ways that hypermasculinity can keep you from being in a successful relationship and/or just getting some head.

Can You Really Be Happy?

My message today is short, easy, and to the point. I was talking to my friend last night and she was talking about whether she wanted to move forward with a particular guy she’s seeing. She’s talking about her feelings and we come to the realization that she in this moment is the problem. How…

15 Rules To Being A Successful Side Piece

15 Rules To Being A Successful Side Piece. If you’re a side piece who wants to keep up a relationship with a person who has a main, then you have to know the rules of the game.

I Got The Keys: Mastering the Interview

Hello guys, I want to share my tips to master the interview process. I know it is hard to find a job in your chosen field. You are having to compete with hundreds of candidates who are just as smart or even better than you. But that’s not what it is about. It is about…