I’ve said this before and I’ll say this again, you only get one life. In one of my last post I talked about how Growth is Uncomfortable. We spend so much time complaining and blaming others for our lack of growth. It is not anyone’s fault but your own! Stop running your mouth and start working. Stop watching others and handle your business. Stop putting off what you can do today for tomorrow. Basically, just shut up and do.
We sit, staring at our phones wishing we had her body, his money, a relationship like hers, or a house like his. We sit around playing the victim instead of taking responsibilities for our own failures. We sit around feeling like why is this happening to me. I do this crap too. I think we can all say we take part in this and we have to change this behavior. Stop avoiding taking the first steps. At times change is uncomfortable, we know this. <—- (You can read more on why it is so uncomfortable.)
And if you are reading this saying “whatever, easier said than done”, I’d say you are absolutely right but so what!? If you are not willing to get off your butt and make things happen for yourself then SHUT UP AND SIT IN A CORNER SOMEWHERE. I am bringing the fire today people. Think of that thing, project, or goal you said you were going to start. Today you are going to start. You are going to take the first step now. I am serious people. RIGHT NOW. So if that means texting him first, getting back to the gym or starting your company, do what you need to do.
We are going to flourish darlings.
P.S. when you feel stuck…read this again. Read it as many times as you need to keep it moving.